Friday, August 28, 2009

thank you, laurie

I never in a million years thought this job would bring so many amazing people into my life. The Strand's are at the top of that list. I met the family a few years ago when Dan and I photographed Jon & Natalie's wedding. Earlier this year they asked me to photograph their family before Laurie, Jon's mother, started chemo treatments. Her cancer had come back from 6 years prior. I had an amazing time photographing everyone, being able to laugh and capture so many real emotions that day. From that point on I followed her blog where she spoke beautiful words and updated everyone on her treatments.

About two weeks ago, I received a call from Natalie that Laurie's time with them was coming to an end. Dan and I went to visit Laurie, Greg, Jon, Natalie, JD, Liz & Heather at their home. We all gathered in Laurie's room, talked & laughed for an hour or so. Everyone in the family has a photo (& new nickname) of each of them wearing Laurie's short blonde wig. Greg, Laurie's husband, took the wig out of the closet to model it for us and the next thing I know, Laurie is suggesting Dan & I each have our turn with the wig & have our photos taken. :) It was absolutely hilarious! I loved that we got to take such a wonderful memory of her with us that evening.

Today I heard the news that she had passed away. I'm still a bit taken back by the news. Laurie and I have only known each other for a short time but she still holds a place in my heart. Before we left their home, she got out of bed, pulled me aside in the hallway and shared some incredible words with me. I'll never forget what she said and I hope she knows how much each word she spoke meant to me. Thank you, Laurie!

To the Strand Family - My heart breaks for you today but I'm comforted in knowing how strong of a family you are. You surrounded Laurie with nothing but love and I am truly honored to call you my friends. Thank you for allowing Dan and I into your lives. We love you!

8 comments:

aunt spam said...

you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know Nicole, they loved the Photo you gave them. Also enjoyed you and Dan enough to "let thier hair" down to include you in thier family in those trying days....God Bless the Strand Family!

Deanna's Photography said...

I went to the blog and it truly touched my heart. You guys and the strand family are in my thoughts and prayers

Spottswood Photography said...

Our hearts go out to them at this very difficult time.

mom said...

We too, share in their sorrow.

char said...

Fabulous family photos Nicole, and what you wrote-fabulous.

Anonymous said...

Truely a touching account

Gail said...

Such poignant words Nicole. And what beautiful photos you took!

My heart is always heavy but happy the family has such memories when I read a post like this from a photog!

Carpenter Photography & Design said...

The moments you captured will be cherished forever in their family...what an amazing faith they share. Thinking and praying for you guys...xoxo